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Jumat, 10 Desember 2010

Tip reaches be happy

Has aim to always happy alive, and cope to can realize the aim, but practically boot many one who can realize his aim. Why do they not realize the willing? Because they are although has happy aim but idea and their attitude is not aimed to aim whom they want.

There are some matters that cause why they cannot reaches happiness that be the aim, because they don't realize the followings:

1. World is created perfect and grateful.

god creates world finely, created day and evening, created man and woman, created also happy and sad such the things of created glad and difficult and others mutual at variance with aim differ but mutual equip. here's world, created day with bright sunshine to gives freshmen for that while created evening the darkly to give freshmen to take a rest, such also with another creation each has use aloof specific.

we must grateful on fullness that created by god, of course we shall not shadow when world there is no evening, every day existing and everybody get into stride and work, without take a rest. And so do when at this world only man sure not pleasant. Difference there the function each so doesn’t polarize.

Grateful and will get to what existence towards world will help us will get happiness. With get to whatever that given by god and evaluate securing that we have worked for two completed will make feeling we shall be balmier and ten tram. Not god self remind to us to it?

2. Keep good experience.

Experience teacher best proverb word often we hear. Happy experience, good experience, beautiful experience in part person frequently doesn't save well, they inclined think that kindness something that should he accept to so unnecessary to kept.

For example, every day we sip do we ever each time sip fresh air we grateful or keep it? Right! some people will remember if can breathe to be happy remarkable exactly in seat at home ill, moment breathe constructively oxygen tube, they aware new that air price very expensive. drink water that refresh to be another example, although grateful some people when finished drinks because taste water that given god, but a part other still to consider this be commonplace and new tau if menu water refresh moment they are ill moment where water drinking bitter. Maybe there example – example other too much when inscribed here.

They felt comforts a natural comfort and usually for them, so that comforts stored in mind be matter usually also. Comfort quantity that come into idea with note usually make good map and happy in mind slimmest so that they still not happy although be given favor breathe unassisted oxygen tube.

the good now is beginning to change viewpoint and give meaning that sip fresh air, enjoy food, drink and matters usually that give freshmen with kindness a happiness necessary menyyukuri and if can be happy that got to braced, enjoyed and kept well in mind. Such the things of we also must internet existence and blog, with internet existence and blog we get tip for happy alive.

with matters insert as happiness continually done or kept in mind, in the time under aware sure that incident genuinely will make us happy so that moment bernafaspun we also shall feel happiness.

If we can make to breathe to be a happiness so grateful because second this, here and now we always shall get happiness because every second we always will breathe.

3. Experience not good.

Differ from experience both for very be of benefit to we, bad experience at variance with good experience, this experience is very disturbs when is not managed well. Why must managed? Bad will give lesson for us that if we do it will get painfulness, there lesson here. For Sebago from we can take lesson from here and doesn't keep painfulness, but unfortunately for many bad experience people and not pleasant this kept lesson temporary strong that be keep then be throwed away far. This make them stress or phobia so that will disturb the life.

Try to remember how long you owe a grudge friend, neighbor brother even parents. May be here and now still to keep grudging that, bad experience very disturbs that with eyes open you embrace and save in mind you. May even exist some people even by dozens that make experience unfavorable and little made big so that add painful, and the funny more painful existing experience gains menyimpannya.

bad experience may not be kept even less be enlarged, may only lesson if we really wish for happiness, if bad experience is kept or be enlarged will make dark map in mempikiran and this will disturb life because existing map mempikiran this be made reference in will endure life.

Enough that taken too kept while the experience as soon as may be forgetter. What though that wisdom, that meant here conclusion from incident, for example grudges because berate apish actually that make berantem. This taken so that we don't repeat events.

4. Think good.

Idea the key, mempikiran good will bring up at good, on the contrary bad idea will bring up at on the contrary. If want happy think happy, don't ever think other.

Experiences that explained above be made blend (map) by idea to run life every day. Luck if we have done third step that explained above. With do third step above many positive pilots or bright existing in mind we are with which are positive pilot or bright we shall endure life positively and happiness even also materialized.

A lot forget that happiness come from in self not from outside our self or another person, only a catalyst that helps to make us happy or sealed. Only can make angry when we wish for it but when do we not wish for it that on the contrary. maybe we are ever see or hear there one who angry at office then at rumahpun angry also if really that make angry that at why does the angry at bring to house? Who brings angry persons involved?

decision to be happy there ménage ourselves self mean us must regulate ourselves self to aim happy with do acceptance towards god-given cannot be changed, keep memories (incident) good with forget as soon as may be memories (incident) bad and as soon as bring idea in good, with will do tip above undoubtedly happy always will stand us all.

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