Tip reaches be happy

Has aim to always happy alive, and cope to can realize the aim, but practically boot many one who can realize his aim. Why do they not realize the willing? Because they are although has happy aim but idea and their attitude is not aimed to aim whom they want.

There are some matters that cause why they cannot reaches happiness that be the aim, because they don't realize the followings:

1. World is created perfect and grateful.

god creates world finely, created day and evening, created man and woman, created also happy and sad such the things of created glad and difficult and others mutual at variance with aim differ but mutual equip. here's world, created day with bright sunshine to gives freshmen for that while created evening the darkly to give freshmen to take a rest, such also with another creation each has use aloof specific.

we must grateful on fullness that created by god, of course we shall not shadow when world there is no evening, every day existing and everybody get into stride and work, without take a rest. And so do when at this world only man sure not pleasant. Difference there the function each so doesn’t polarize.

Grateful and will get to what existence towards world will help us will get happiness. With get to whatever that given by god and evaluate securing that we have worked for two completed will make feeling we shall be balmier and ten tram. Not god self remind to us to it?

2. Keep good experience.

Experience teacher best proverb word often we hear. Happy experience, good experience, beautiful experience in part person frequently doesn't save well, they inclined think that kindness something that should he accept to so unnecessary to kept.

For example, every day we sip do we ever each time sip fresh air we grateful or keep it? Right! some people will remember if can breathe to be happy remarkable exactly in seat at home ill, moment breathe constructively oxygen tube, they aware new that air price very expensive. drink water that refresh to be another example, although grateful some people when finished drinks because taste water that given god, but a part other still to consider this be commonplace and new tau if menu water refresh moment they are ill moment where water drinking bitter. Maybe there example – example other too much when inscribed here.

They felt comforts a natural comfort and usually for them, so that comforts stored in mind be matter usually also. Comfort quantity that come into idea with note usually make good map and happy in mind slimmest so that they still not happy although be given favor breathe unassisted oxygen tube.

the good now is beginning to change viewpoint and give meaning that sip fresh air, enjoy food, drink and matters usually that give freshmen with kindness a happiness necessary menyyukuri and if can be happy that got to braced, enjoyed and kept well in mind. Such the things of we also must internet existence and blog, with internet existence and blog we get tip for happy alive.

with matters insert as happiness continually done or kept in mind, in the time under aware sure that incident genuinely will make us happy so that moment bernafaspun we also shall feel happiness.

If we can make to breathe to be a happiness so grateful because second this, here and now we always shall get happiness because every second we always will breathe.

3. Experience not good.

Differ from experience both for very be of benefit to we, bad experience at variance with good experience, this experience is very disturbs when is not managed well. Why must managed? Bad will give lesson for us that if we do it will get painfulness, there lesson here. For Sebago from we can take lesson from here and doesn't keep painfulness, but unfortunately for many bad experience people and not pleasant this kept lesson temporary strong that be keep then be throwed away far. This make them stress or phobia so that will disturb the life.

Try to remember how long you owe a grudge friend, neighbor brother even parents. May be here and now still to keep grudging that, bad experience very disturbs that with eyes open you embrace and save in mind you. May even exist some people even by dozens that make experience unfavorable and little made big so that add painful, and the funny more painful existing experience gains menyimpannya.

bad experience may not be kept even less be enlarged, may only lesson if we really wish for happiness, if bad experience is kept or be enlarged will make dark map in mempikiran and this will disturb life because existing map mempikiran this be made reference in will endure life.

Enough that taken too kept while the experience as soon as may be forgetter. What though that wisdom, that meant here conclusion from incident, for example grudges because berate apish actually that make berantem. This taken so that we don't repeat events.

4. Think good.

Idea the key, mempikiran good will bring up at good, on the contrary bad idea will bring up at on the contrary. If want happy think happy, don't ever think other.

Experiences that explained above be made blend (map) by idea to run life every day. Luck if we have done third step that explained above. With do third step above many positive pilots or bright existing in mind we are with which are positive pilot or bright we shall endure life positively and happiness even also materialized.

A lot forget that happiness come from in self not from outside our self or another person, only a catalyst that helps to make us happy or sealed. Only can make angry when we wish for it but when do we not wish for it that on the contrary. maybe we are ever see or hear there one who angry at office then at rumahpun angry also if really that make angry that at why does the angry at bring to house? Who brings angry persons involved?

decision to be happy there ménage ourselves self mean us must regulate ourselves self to aim happy with do acceptance towards god-given cannot be changed, keep memories (incident) good with forget as soon as may be memories (incident) bad and as soon as bring idea in good, with will do tip above undoubtedly happy always will stand us all.

Tips wear jibe/veil

Along with more store quantity jibe and store good veil store offline, so there a little tips make you are that neaten wear jibe veil.

make you that hooded, but sometimes still to like confused how to wear modern veil delicious n neat, even less kilo make to office let teeter durable gab mincing there mincing here.

Or sometimes like busy n busy self kilo there invitation pentane gab there the wrong, correct reading tips follow.

First step:

recognize your face form self, whatever gym related to face likes manner for example beer-make up, configuring hair and or hooded, importunes megamall your face self. For that free time a moment to not merely see face reflection at mirror, but watch closely and analyze face form that bounce back at mirror.

There 5 forms base face; oval, round, box, trilateral, and oval.

Well after identified your face form self, your second step must know two styles base modern veil or jibe modern.

1. Veil meets be chin

Use scarf rectal with beforehand fold it up to form equilateral with bigger exterior 10cm, the toy it so that side scarf tad seen race. Put scarf on kaput den symmetrical then bring into contact second be chin, hook with little pin (jibe modern).

This chin veil style suited for you gym has round face form and box. For second this face form, your hooded display will be seen battier n good if you also wear band be volume. Please see collection jibe

2. Veil meets at the opposite of nape of neck

Ingredient base and beginning use manner much the same to with “eroding degum”. The difference manner wears it, scarf put on kaput symmetrically, then pull left end kana rear nape of neck and tie. Take remainder one of [the] end scarf that bound, pull up at in front of and cross in front of neck. Bind to side scarf that under ear by using needle penult (modern veil).

This hooded style makes area jaw is seen wider. So for you Bermuda trilateral and long this veil style fits.

You that have oval face form, you can wear second style base hooded a while ago, and depending your taste wants to choose gym

20 broken heart ways to overcome

1. cry

Lift tall fist and regret self: “kook I? “. Drop self to floor and floor blow expressively: “time sigh final only like this?” where necessary, you run amuck and tie on tear drain while weep over the cruel mankind deed. If you not can cry, lease film English patient let tear flows quickly.

2. Let sadness bumps into

You may grieve. This is better than contain feeling. Only, try for permanent posed elegant. Don’t gloomy plasticity at front it. Acting sad like player film there is no the influence for another person.

3. Tell your sadness

In close friend or family. If you say not there an even also that realize the situation, you big wrong. We are all ever experience trauma broken off to love, so us all understand and want to forget it. But don't vomit your feeling at all of one whom you meet. Origin knows, many people often don’t care feelingly another person.

4. Don’t worry

If his flightiest impressing success lifts 10 load tons from the shoulder. Man wants longer time to admit without disguise hit the feeling. Hurry or slow he shows it also. For, you may near glad.

5. Hold off you from it

If that make you to felt roomy. Origin you keep in mind again the difficult to boastful easy-going at the (time) of you again want.

6. Come along fitness practice

Current endorphin will raise your spirit and will who crying sharp-looking that smile again aerobic that your heart.

7. Begin to read book

The difficult if lose darling lost it somebody to hugged. Read certifiable book before sleeps, obvious be manner effective.

8. Enjoy things

Abhorred him during you still with it. Burn oil aromatherapy with hard smell, consultation with psychologist, ripe vegetarian food or wear clothes whom you like without afraid censured.

9. Cut your hair

Symbolically memo tang hair means to lift load from shoulder or begin something new.

10. Change your perfume

You not need again odors usually remind to return in beautiful days with it.

11. Pass the time with freinds

Enjoy associating to like times bag formerly. Belief it, you future nears calmer after mending sad story also undergone friends.

12. posed asexual

And kid opposite gender for. This manner will launch your road will aim emotion placidity. But if you not can forget willing to intimate with the former, consider that is commonplace. Broken off to love beyond question make person more years. If final you can meet again, not your sign returned to braid connection that fail that.

13. Cut wisdom teeth

Assure yourself if that incident really must happen. Trust in own self ability, that's manner to cure feeling. Joy overflow must not always end at decorative wedding-bed. Broken off to love really painful, but not as mortally as divorce.

14. Make two lists differ

In one list, register what make you not happy in your connection. Then, in list the other one again, write what you intended from a connection. Wear second that list to help to cause the loss of your negative patterned thinking that is feeling existence at refuses by the hue.

15. Listen to

If good friends spreads deficits former you and help you to look at him realistic. But don't go on discussion has 'full hate.

16. Change

Goods in place live you that remind you to him. If live close to one another move the time being where necessary. Remove the photos. Stop to listens songs ever you think much of. Create new atmosphere with buys cod new not there the connection with past memories.

17. Use all your strengths

To defend your decision. Your heart is may be destroyed, but final what appear will like strength from outside will be exit for convalescence in yourself.

18. Pamper your self

You are forced to stop for midiron another person. So, cumuli ajar entire that energy is for own self.

19. Opponent haves

Broken off on the spur of the moment like to force to change habit out of a clear sky. Let not afraid face it to realize ajar you get that change consequence new experience that is emotion maturation which actually can strengthen character.

20. Look for aid

Although you Utah go all out and all efforts to cure self and teeter fail, try to take counsel with the expert (also may psychologist!). several things that can help you to get up again, get objective suggestion from a friend loyal listener, chat with friends and concentrate attention so that get over offended lose.

person marking falls

This here several person feature signs in love. If you feel one of the twelve feeling hereunder mean you love one that make you are restless. But what matters is that, correct reading marking follows:

1. You always together with the he are far into the night and when do you sleep you still to think him.

2. You want it is toes slowly when with him.

3. You don't felt pleasant when the he is far apart or always restless.

4. You smile when you hear voice the hue.

5. When do you see the hue, you don't pay attention another person around you, you see only the hue.

6. the he is always you think

7. You realize that can make you smile every moment with see the hue.

8. You will do certain to will meet the hue.

9. Manacle you are reading this, found somebody in mind you moment you read it.

10. You so busy have thought the he so that you haven't has the feeling that people have in point 7.

11. You will investigate all statements above and if true, so now you will smile self

so that love to spring beautiful

get our colleague whats existence without hope too much, be provision to achieve love in household and happiness at hereafter.
as servant that bestowed on natural tendency, we are really necessary poise hope. not wrong we cry to perfect husband,  but at the (time) of same we also must melapang breast to get deficit. we may pegg hope, but we also necessary have asked what we have prepared so that proper accompany ideal pair.
this may not mean us may not has willing to repair our life, our household, with our pair. but, our hope ever greater is in wedding more difficulter we achieve happiness and love. on the contrary, our wedding commitment excelsior (marital commitment) more wideer road that sweeting to get kebahagian and satisfaction.
what is the difference hope and commitment? what else the influence towards our household wholeness? hope towards marriage shows what want us get in marriage. when do we have marriage hope very big, difficult for us to get what pair is existence. we always shall see him full deficit. if we get married because spellbound by the beauty, we soon shall lose love so that may not berlemah soft so our wife haven't decoyed again. how does fast and expire and how does sorrow big that be must be underwrited.
meanwhile, marriage commitment more show household likes what want us get up. alacrity to get deficit, belong mengikhlas heart gets the deficit makes us easier mensyukuri marriage.
caused by commitment very strong in allah and rasul- wife julaibib mengikhlas heart to get married with julaibib. bew last night their wedding age is julaibib ends live at martyr field. when does the mother felt bot ready to caused by dignity the low the low and physical figure obsolence, he asks so that the old person gets that proposal if really rasulul may allah bless him and give him peace. determine.
one who melapang heart to menenggang difference, inclined will find many sameness. that difference not then there is no,  but fellow-feeling to menenggang difference makes us easy to see sameness and the kindness. on the contrary, we shall felt not pleasant relate to another person, not with the exception of our alive colleague, when are we busy question difference. even less if we often menyebut-nyebut, more asa that difference and more not pleasant build connection with him.
good allah protects us from question difference without mengilmui. good allah go away us from bustle that destroy. good also later mengukuh feeling tie between we are with affection, veracity,  and alacrity menenggang difference. actually expire peoples before we are they destroyed because busy question difference and debate about something matters that be allah secret.
well, if question difference, menyebut-nyebut,  and mengeluhkan will make distant connection, why not melapang heart to menenggang? actually menenggang difference menumbuh affection and warm love. there feeling touch all at once make happy if we give to what end he takes.
for that, there three things necessary we comprehend expecting him to trust our veracity. first, give warm attention to it. attention magnitude makes him felt us pity and we love. second accept him without condition. acceptance without condition shows that us love it heartily. not may be get him what existence if we don't have veracity loves and intention cleanliness. third, lay open with correct words.
related to this expression, there a tips ahsan that submitted by ustaz now still to teach at psychology direction, uii, yogyakarta this. that is terminology “aku” and kamu”. moment we get that dish that made our pair is for example briny, so use pronoun “aku”. “a more like if sweeter the vegetable, sayang” but moment we get a surplus in pair self, he is successful fries for example omelette egg (usually he fry encrusted), so we use pronoun “kamu”. “ka really clever, istriku”. we use word “aku” to something that in character negative and “kamu” to something that in character positive. for all matter.
apparently really true, because pronoun use “kamu” to a error that done by our pair inclined menyaran in meaning memvonis instead of memosisi our pair as defendant.
in pragmatic perspective (linguistic), this terminology is a use efforts maksim good manners permanently defend maksim cooperation. with a purpose to so that doesn't happen conflict in both.
leave from this allah instruction improper for us for busy questions deficit and or error, even less hard to lose deficit, along he doesn't do real meanness. how even also a lot not we take a fancy to from it, love with him not pale if we try to berbaik suspect to allah, perhaps on the otherhand allah gives kindness very big. on the contrary, sesedikit anything wickedness it, when are we busy menyebut-nyebut and remember it, very will stress soul. impact furthermore not only for wife husband connection,  but pervade in our connection and the little.
accept him what existence. will accept the deficit with heart sincerity so we shall find to love that spring beautiful. afterwards cope to repair and doesn't demand for perfect. isn't it true that has deficit, why are we busy demand wife for perfect? there message that must we are when must we get married nursemaid. there space to mutual share. there space to mutual repair. and not mutual sigh, instead of menyebut-nyebut deficit.
comprehend the mistake expecting him to felt light in repair, although doesn't mean us then let error. give support and warmth to it so that he is berbesar heart faces challenges exist in in front of. indicate that us really very appreciate it, accept it heartily, want to understand and bouncy accompany it.
in this book ustaz fauzil really not only discuss around sincerity gets our pair whats existence. but apparently he has looked at trifling problem temeh this in some cases have come to reef enough steep then give birth to conflict seeds and instead of divorce.
like at the end, he explains to how efforts learns that not limit of get to what existence,  but also followed with learn to hear obligingly. because bot rarely we not doesn't understand answer truthfully desirable at the opposite of pair question.
quite a lot unimportant matter apparently we have considerred we have given but obvious that thing far slip from guess. we don't hear pair but hear ownself, we don't give solution but even matter increase. we don't give exit instead of judge. we don't give answer,  but even give question. we don't unburden but even stress. thats true?
al end, that wealth is in soul. and that wealth chip is begun from veracity gets. with our soul wealth easier will will give empathy, easier to realize, easier to share and easier hears obligingly.
today, when do we dream about a wedding mind tie temporary romantic between we and pair so brittle, has we berterima affection to it? did we apologize on our error error? if not yet, begin with apologize on our errors and lay open a calling pity to it. begin from easiest, hatta triflingest or little even if. begin from smallest, such ustaz aa leave a message. little things mean a lot, such ustaz fauzil add. so that love to spring in our family, so that love always bloomy in our life.